Tuesday, January 13, 2009
"Let Go and Grow"
I can practically guarantee that, if you are continually frustrated in your efforts to grow either by meeting someone new after a failed relationship, or finding a new career path, or even new friends, that there are vestiges of holding on to earlier events which are stopping your progress.
I become more and more convinced that in order to move ahead in your life you really have to leave behind what is behind.
The biblical metaphor for this phenomenon is Lot's wife turning into a pillar of salt as she looked behind her to see Sodom burnt to the ground.
Unless we let what has passed truly be over, its ghost continues to haunt us, and actually hampers the arrival of the wished-for event.
This process can actually go on for years.
So if there is anything right now that you truly want and it is just not happening, ask yourself what you have not let go of that might possibly be in the way.
Here are several steps to help you achieve the "Let Go and Grow" process in your own life.
I become more and more convinced that in order to move ahead in your life you really have to leave behind what is behind.
The biblical metaphor for this phenomenon is Lot's wife turning into a pillar of salt as she looked behind her to see Sodom burnt to the ground.
Unless we let what has passed truly be over, its ghost continues to haunt us, and actually hampers the arrival of the wished-for event.
This process can actually go on for years.
So if there is anything right now that you truly want and it is just not happening, ask yourself what you have not let go of that might possibly be in the way.
Here are several steps to help you achieve the "Let Go and Grow" process in your own life.
Monday, January 12, 2009
Below are some of my favorite quotations I've found on the subject of love
Below are some of my favorite quotations I've found on the subject of love.
"Love has the power of making you believe what you would normally treat with the deepest suspicion." - Mirabeau
"When you love someone, all your saved-up wishes start coming out." - Elizabeth Bowen
"Never go to bed mad. Stay up and fight." - Phyllis Diller
"I detest 'love lyrics.' I think one of the causes of bad mental health in the United States is that people have been raised on 'love lyrics." - Frank Zappa
"I should like to see any kind of a man, distinguishable from a gorilla, that some good and even pretty woman could not shape a husband out of." - Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr.
"A kiss can be a comma, a question mark, or an exclamation point. That's basic spelling that every woman ought to know." - Mistinguett
"You'd be surprised how much it costs to look this cheap." - Dolly Parton
"I feel like Zsa Zsa Gabor's eighth husband on her wedding night: I know what I'm supposed to do... I just have to figure out a way to make it interesting." - many attributions
"The most wasted day is that in which we have not laughed." - Chamfort
"Thou art to me a delicious torment." - Ralph Waldo Emerson
Thursday, January 8, 2009
LOVE THE BABY
Learning to accept love from others - from ANYONE and from ALL is equally important than saying "i love you". the art is to recognize the near infinite number of different ways others practice to tell YOU or show you THEIR love is what we all need to learn and practice again.
if you reject part of their love - then YOU are an active factor of emotional AND spiritual stress for others. if you manage to reject most of other peoples love - then it would be MUCH better for all others to be WITHOUT YOU as it is much easier to spiritually grow without additional know stress-factors. if you happen to have a partner who repeatedly or near permanently rejects many of YOUR ways of showing and proving YOUR love - TALK to him - seriously and firm, if nothing changes, then it is time for immediate divorce.
every child of God has a divine right to be able to GIVE love in as many different ways as God OR you created. continuously, every day, every hour, eternally. including physical / sexual love and all varieties of direct love between 2 partners. every child of God has a divine right to RECEIVE love in many different ways - ever-changing ways - every day.
rejected love is one of the very worst spiritual situation that EVER can or could happen to anyone in God's entire creation. hence learn to recognize ALL different ways others use to tell you "i love you" or to show it or make you feel their love.
friends, family members, your children, your employer, your employees, neighbors and anyone else may have a deep desire to show YOU their love and it is YOUR DIVINE DUTY to learn to accept THEIR full love.
different people have many different ways expressing love. basically anyone who wants to talk to or with you, who wants or seeks your company may do so to seek an exchange of love in either way or both directions. exchange of love may start in a very powerful way in the very earliest childhood. here a few examples how OTHERS may express THEIR love for YOU:
* a baby loves breastfeeding - that is first a receiving part - the baby RECEIVES milk from mother and included WITH the direct flow of milk there is a direct and proportional FLOW of metaphysical LOVE from the "bosom-chakra". the baby ACCEPTING milk from mama says "i love you" by accepting mother-milk. after feeding the baby may want to sleep skin to skin at the bosom - to enjoy the FLOW of metaphysical love that keeps on flowing. it enjoys mothers aura and love and by ENJOYING mother's skin to skin contact shows his love for mama.
* if baby rejects your milk directly from your bosom - then your love is possessive or selfish - selfish love is hard and painful to accept or digest and baby may prefer to live WITHOUT your love rather than with selfish or possessive love.
* a few weeks later a baby may smile and a smile is an expression of happiness. happiness occurs when baby receives love from mother AND mothers fully absorbs all love from baby. a baby - remember that - is AN ADULT SOUL using a small and growing physical body that FIRST needs physically to adapt to the capabilities and potential of that soul. whatever the reason for an incarnation - the baby usually can LOVE - give AND receive - more and better than most parents. love is silent. a smile may be accompanied by a huge flow of love from heart to heart from soul to soul.
* a b aby wants to be hugged - but it also wants to hug mother, father, sisters, friends and any loving person. when YOU establish direct body to body - even more - skin to skin contact, then every normal baby is fully open for the FREE flow of love in both directions - simultaneously. if you have "no time" for baby and give it away to a baby sitter, then you reject baby's love and create spiritual DAMAGE to that baby !
* the more time you spent face to face, skin to skin with your baby, the more you learn to appreciate the many different ways of giving love as well as receiving love from the baby.
* b aby wants to communicate with you - to tell you sweet loving words - but you are listening with your ears instead of using your MIND and heard. baby can communicate in a telepathic way during pregnancy and after - just as easily as YOU can speak words. a newborn wants to make sure YOU know how much baby loves YOU and that baby most likely came to HELP YOU, to give LOVE to you, to be your little sunshine here on earth in your heart.
* baby grows up and starts crawling around and experience this "funny" and very dark planet. baby tries every energy it can see or feel. and whenever baby sees something special it brings you that special piece to show YOU "i love you" in different ways.
* baby may bring you some beetles, some gravel stones, minerals, flowers, ... ! baby KNOWS what is good for YOU - do YOU know what is good for YOU ? most likely NOT !!! can YOU FEEL energy ?? can you feel the energy of minerals or flowers or trees ??? are you fully aware of the energy of a butterfly or a glow worm for example ??? can you instantly feel the healing effect on your aura and physical body any flower brought to you by your children ???
* children grow up with an open heart - open for angels, for god and most metaphysical aspects of earthly life. children can feel the aura of humans and animals near by. and children often are searching for small objects that appear nice to them and bring them to you - as a gift of love just for you. it is their way of saying "i love you".
* later on baby starts to make drawings and gives them to mama, papa and friends. as a gift of love.
* and still later baby is a small child and learns to talk and SING - and sometimes sings just for you. baby wants to be WITH you even as it grows up. the growing up baby wants to share, to help, to WORK WITH you whatever you work - baby wants to share and help you. cleaning, washing, gardening, mechanical work, carpenter work, it is the children's ways of showing their love - being WITH you - near you - where ever you are, what ever you do. it is their divine birth right.
* if whatever YOU do is TOO "dangerous" or "wrong" for baby or child - then it also is TOO dangerous or "wrong" for YOU.
* babies and children love to play WITH YOU - rather than with toys - with you means with your body ! fathers are to be strong and YOU are the living toy for your children - by accepting YOU as their playmate of first choice - specially during the first several years of an incarnation - baby tells you "i love you more than anything else - just YOU - no toys of plastic, wood or metal ever can replace YOUR skin to skin body to body love and presence. it is YOUR having time for them that shows them that YOU are open to give AND receive LOVE.
* and if after hours of wild or sweet playing WITH you, they become tired and need a nap - they again show you one more times their appreciation of YOUR love and YOUR aura by hugging you and falling asleep IN YOUR ARMS !
* angel babies always want to fall asleep IN YOUR ARMS as well as wake up in your arms.
do you realize the many ways YOUR children around you are using to show their love to you ? are you always saying YES to EVERY such occasion or do you say NO sometimes or often ?
any damage caused by YOUR rejection of baby's love or children's love needs to be healed by someone BEFORE a child becomes mature for a partnership. such healing often takes more than an entire incarnation - that means many children have selected a situation that was so hard and empty of love that they have a "broken" heart beyond the actual incarnation, while others may need many years or decades beyond childhood until they become ready for a mutual love within a partnership.
look at the high percentage of divorce and look at all the NON-divorced partnerships which can NOT divorce because their culture prohibits divorce. look at all the partnerships and families with drug and / or alcohol problems. all these are children having grown up in a environment and society empty of love - they have neither received all the love they deserved AND NEEDED nor were they allowed and given a chance to GIVE all the love they WANTED to give.
if a baby or child WANTS to be near you, WITH you - it is the first way of saying "i love you". because loving to be WITH or NEAR you also means:
* i love your love
* i love your aura
* i love your smile
* i love your face
* your energy
* i love what you have to offer in your heart
* I am HUNGRY for YOUR love, all kind of love YOU have to give me - your baby !
* my hunger for YOUR LOVE, for your presence, shall show YOU how valuable YOUR love is - for me as well as in general to ALL mankind AND to God. as YOUR LOVE expressed in your time you share WITH me is the single most valuable you ever have to offer - to me as well as to ALL and to God !!!
.... but i am always aware that YOU need love - and me - your baby - i am willing to GIVE you all my love - to smile at you, to hug you, to kiss you, to touch you, to caress you, to bring you flowers, and plants, and many many smaller or larger objects to show AND PROOF YOU my love - as much as you need.
the more YOU are ready for most direct exchange of love - skin to skin, eyes to eyes, heart to heart and soul to soul - the more happy all. baby is ready for most direct and most efficient love !! always !!! are YOU ready to accept direct efficient love from your baby and children ? or do you attempt to SUBSTITUTE YOUR direct love with TOYS, sweets and material goods rather than with YOUR time that allows YOU free flow of love - giving and receiving love requires TIME together without any interference by TV or other distractions - just YOU and baby !
if you reject part of their love - then YOU are an active factor of emotional AND spiritual stress for others. if you manage to reject most of other peoples love - then it would be MUCH better for all others to be WITHOUT YOU as it is much easier to spiritually grow without additional know stress-factors. if you happen to have a partner who repeatedly or near permanently rejects many of YOUR ways of showing and proving YOUR love - TALK to him - seriously and firm, if nothing changes, then it is time for immediate divorce.
every child of God has a divine right to be able to GIVE love in as many different ways as God OR you created. continuously, every day, every hour, eternally. including physical / sexual love and all varieties of direct love between 2 partners. every child of God has a divine right to RECEIVE love in many different ways - ever-changing ways - every day.
rejected love is one of the very worst spiritual situation that EVER can or could happen to anyone in God's entire creation. hence learn to recognize ALL different ways others use to tell you "i love you" or to show it or make you feel their love.
friends, family members, your children, your employer, your employees, neighbors and anyone else may have a deep desire to show YOU their love and it is YOUR DIVINE DUTY to learn to accept THEIR full love.
different people have many different ways expressing love. basically anyone who wants to talk to or with you, who wants or seeks your company may do so to seek an exchange of love in either way or both directions. exchange of love may start in a very powerful way in the very earliest childhood. here a few examples how OTHERS may express THEIR love for YOU:
* a baby loves breastfeeding - that is first a receiving part - the baby RECEIVES milk from mother and included WITH the direct flow of milk there is a direct and proportional FLOW of metaphysical LOVE from the "bosom-chakra". the baby ACCEPTING milk from mama says "i love you" by accepting mother-milk. after feeding the baby may want to sleep skin to skin at the bosom - to enjoy the FLOW of metaphysical love that keeps on flowing. it enjoys mothers aura and love and by ENJOYING mother's skin to skin contact shows his love for mama.
* if baby rejects your milk directly from your bosom - then your love is possessive or selfish - selfish love is hard and painful to accept or digest and baby may prefer to live WITHOUT your love rather than with selfish or possessive love.
* a few weeks later a baby may smile and a smile is an expression of happiness. happiness occurs when baby receives love from mother AND mothers fully absorbs all love from baby. a baby - remember that - is AN ADULT SOUL using a small and growing physical body that FIRST needs physically to adapt to the capabilities and potential of that soul. whatever the reason for an incarnation - the baby usually can LOVE - give AND receive - more and better than most parents. love is silent. a smile may be accompanied by a huge flow of love from heart to heart from soul to soul.
* a b aby wants to be hugged - but it also wants to hug mother, father, sisters, friends and any loving person. when YOU establish direct body to body - even more - skin to skin contact, then every normal baby is fully open for the FREE flow of love in both directions - simultaneously. if you have "no time" for baby and give it away to a baby sitter, then you reject baby's love and create spiritual DAMAGE to that baby !
* the more time you spent face to face, skin to skin with your baby, the more you learn to appreciate the many different ways of giving love as well as receiving love from the baby.
* b aby wants to communicate with you - to tell you sweet loving words - but you are listening with your ears instead of using your MIND and heard. baby can communicate in a telepathic way during pregnancy and after - just as easily as YOU can speak words. a newborn wants to make sure YOU know how much baby loves YOU and that baby most likely came to HELP YOU, to give LOVE to you, to be your little sunshine here on earth in your heart.
* baby grows up and starts crawling around and experience this "funny" and very dark planet. baby tries every energy it can see or feel. and whenever baby sees something special it brings you that special piece to show YOU "i love you" in different ways.
* baby may bring you some beetles, some gravel stones, minerals, flowers, ... ! baby KNOWS what is good for YOU - do YOU know what is good for YOU ? most likely NOT !!! can YOU FEEL energy ?? can you feel the energy of minerals or flowers or trees ??? are you fully aware of the energy of a butterfly or a glow worm for example ??? can you instantly feel the healing effect on your aura and physical body any flower brought to you by your children ???
* children grow up with an open heart - open for angels, for god and most metaphysical aspects of earthly life. children can feel the aura of humans and animals near by. and children often are searching for small objects that appear nice to them and bring them to you - as a gift of love just for you. it is their way of saying "i love you".
* later on baby starts to make drawings and gives them to mama, papa and friends. as a gift of love.
* and still later baby is a small child and learns to talk and SING - and sometimes sings just for you. baby wants to be WITH you even as it grows up. the growing up baby wants to share, to help, to WORK WITH you whatever you work - baby wants to share and help you. cleaning, washing, gardening, mechanical work, carpenter work, it is the children's ways of showing their love - being WITH you - near you - where ever you are, what ever you do. it is their divine birth right.
* if whatever YOU do is TOO "dangerous" or "wrong" for baby or child - then it also is TOO dangerous or "wrong" for YOU.
* babies and children love to play WITH YOU - rather than with toys - with you means with your body ! fathers are to be strong and YOU are the living toy for your children - by accepting YOU as their playmate of first choice - specially during the first several years of an incarnation - baby tells you "i love you more than anything else - just YOU - no toys of plastic, wood or metal ever can replace YOUR skin to skin body to body love and presence. it is YOUR having time for them that shows them that YOU are open to give AND receive LOVE.
* and if after hours of wild or sweet playing WITH you, they become tired and need a nap - they again show you one more times their appreciation of YOUR love and YOUR aura by hugging you and falling asleep IN YOUR ARMS !
* angel babies always want to fall asleep IN YOUR ARMS as well as wake up in your arms.
do you realize the many ways YOUR children around you are using to show their love to you ? are you always saying YES to EVERY such occasion or do you say NO sometimes or often ?
any damage caused by YOUR rejection of baby's love or children's love needs to be healed by someone BEFORE a child becomes mature for a partnership. such healing often takes more than an entire incarnation - that means many children have selected a situation that was so hard and empty of love that they have a "broken" heart beyond the actual incarnation, while others may need many years or decades beyond childhood until they become ready for a mutual love within a partnership.
look at the high percentage of divorce and look at all the NON-divorced partnerships which can NOT divorce because their culture prohibits divorce. look at all the partnerships and families with drug and / or alcohol problems. all these are children having grown up in a environment and society empty of love - they have neither received all the love they deserved AND NEEDED nor were they allowed and given a chance to GIVE all the love they WANTED to give.
if a baby or child WANTS to be near you, WITH you - it is the first way of saying "i love you". because loving to be WITH or NEAR you also means:
* i love your love
* i love your aura
* i love your smile
* i love your face
* your energy
* i love what you have to offer in your heart
* I am HUNGRY for YOUR love, all kind of love YOU have to give me - your baby !
* my hunger for YOUR LOVE, for your presence, shall show YOU how valuable YOUR love is - for me as well as in general to ALL mankind AND to God. as YOUR LOVE expressed in your time you share WITH me is the single most valuable you ever have to offer - to me as well as to ALL and to God !!!
.... but i am always aware that YOU need love - and me - your baby - i am willing to GIVE you all my love - to smile at you, to hug you, to kiss you, to touch you, to caress you, to bring you flowers, and plants, and many many smaller or larger objects to show AND PROOF YOU my love - as much as you need.
the more YOU are ready for most direct exchange of love - skin to skin, eyes to eyes, heart to heart and soul to soul - the more happy all. baby is ready for most direct and most efficient love !! always !!! are YOU ready to accept direct efficient love from your baby and children ? or do you attempt to SUBSTITUTE YOUR direct love with TOYS, sweets and material goods rather than with YOUR time that allows YOU free flow of love - giving and receiving love requires TIME together without any interference by TV or other distractions - just YOU and baby !
Let Me Count The 3 Ways! of LOVE
First kind of love:
The "IF kind of love" says, "I will love you IF you do things my way, IF you give me gifts, IF you become a good provider, IF you get a good report card at school." It is a conditional love based upon future expectations. If these conditions are not met, then like a legal contract, love is broken. This is a selfish love because it is solely based upon future expectations. It is love that must be earned. Most marriages fail because they are based upon this conditional love. Children are often heard saying, "I will be your friend" IF you let me play with your new toy; till then I hate you. Thus the IF kind of love is a fickle unstable love. This is the childish love we are all born with. It is a worldly love of natural instincts. We need to mature out of the IF kind of love!
Second kind of love:
The "because of" kind of love says, "I will love you BECAUSE you are now young and beautiful, BECAUSE I now desire you, BECAUSE you are now popular, BECAUSE you are now in good health or wealthy, BECAUSE I feel good when I am with you." This kind of love is common among teenagers because it is solely based upon the others current status. The BECAUSE OF kind of love is also doomed to failure in marriage. When someone proclaims, "I have fallen out of love" they have fallen out of the "because of" kind of love, not true love. This kind of love is not in tune with reality when it demands that things stay the same in an ever changing world. Like the If kind of love, it is unstable and fickle. It is full of doubts and fears for what tomorrow might bring.
True Love:
True love is the "in spite of kind of love". It says, "I love you IN SPITE OF your faults, IN SPITE OF being fat and ugly, IN SPITE OF the times you are selfish and inconsiderate, IN SPITE OF when you sin against me," True love is unconditional. It is the love that God loves us with. It is a love we don't naturally possess but must learn. It is an enduring love that doesn't even keep a score card. It will always be there tomorrow regardless of what we have done today. This is the kind of love that 50th "golden" anniversaries are made of. Romans 5:6-8 says, "For one will hardly die for a righteous man; though perhaps for the very good man someone would dare even to die. But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us." Notice the contrast between conditional and unconditional love in this verse. Christ didn't die for us BECAUSE we were very good and worth dying for. Rather He died for us in SPITE OF the fact we were worthless sinners. Oh "to know the love of Christ which surpasses comprehension,"
The "IF kind of love" says, "I will love you IF you do things my way, IF you give me gifts, IF you become a good provider, IF you get a good report card at school." It is a conditional love based upon future expectations. If these conditions are not met, then like a legal contract, love is broken. This is a selfish love because it is solely based upon future expectations. It is love that must be earned. Most marriages fail because they are based upon this conditional love. Children are often heard saying, "I will be your friend" IF you let me play with your new toy; till then I hate you. Thus the IF kind of love is a fickle unstable love. This is the childish love we are all born with. It is a worldly love of natural instincts. We need to mature out of the IF kind of love!
Second kind of love:
The "because of" kind of love says, "I will love you BECAUSE you are now young and beautiful, BECAUSE I now desire you, BECAUSE you are now popular, BECAUSE you are now in good health or wealthy, BECAUSE I feel good when I am with you." This kind of love is common among teenagers because it is solely based upon the others current status. The BECAUSE OF kind of love is also doomed to failure in marriage. When someone proclaims, "I have fallen out of love" they have fallen out of the "because of" kind of love, not true love. This kind of love is not in tune with reality when it demands that things stay the same in an ever changing world. Like the If kind of love, it is unstable and fickle. It is full of doubts and fears for what tomorrow might bring.
True Love:
True love is the "in spite of kind of love". It says, "I love you IN SPITE OF your faults, IN SPITE OF being fat and ugly, IN SPITE OF the times you are selfish and inconsiderate, IN SPITE OF when you sin against me," True love is unconditional. It is the love that God loves us with. It is a love we don't naturally possess but must learn. It is an enduring love that doesn't even keep a score card. It will always be there tomorrow regardless of what we have done today. This is the kind of love that 50th "golden" anniversaries are made of. Romans 5:6-8 says, "For one will hardly die for a righteous man; though perhaps for the very good man someone would dare even to die. But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us." Notice the contrast between conditional and unconditional love in this verse. Christ didn't die for us BECAUSE we were very good and worth dying for. Rather He died for us in SPITE OF the fact we were worthless sinners. Oh "to know the love of Christ which surpasses comprehension,"
How to Love Others
1. Enlarge your understanding. Your definition of love may be too narrow. Love is more than a good feeling or romance.
You may say, "I love ice cream. I am in love with my companion. I love my family enough to labor every day to provide for them. I am compassionate toward hurting people, so I do my part to alleviate suffering and injustice in the world."
You do not need to agree with someone to act with consideration. You do not need to be attracted to someone to demonstrate a loving attitude.
2. Adjust the angle of your perspective. “It ain’t about you." Love motivates people to sacrifice for others, not expecting any personal benefit. Stop thinking selfishly. Look for the needs of others, and then do your part to meet their needs.
3. Locate the source of love. You may love something because it is a source of pleasure. You may feel devotion to someone because you enjoy his or her company. Sympathy and compassion are foundations of love toward those living in difficult circumstances. Empathy is a starting place for love, as you identify the value of other citizens of this planet. Love may start as an expression of personal gratitude for the blessings you have received and your desire to share those blessings. Faith and spiritual devotion are powerful sources of selfless love.
4. Express your love. Find words and actions of love that are appropriate. Learn to speak words of blessing rather than criticism. Share your resources with a needy person. Participate in your community of faith. Offer gifts and perform thoughtful deeds with no ulterior motivation.
5. Accept disappointment. Not everyone will return your love. This is not failure. It is not your goal to make the world love you, but for you to love the world.
You may say, "I love ice cream. I am in love with my companion. I love my family enough to labor every day to provide for them. I am compassionate toward hurting people, so I do my part to alleviate suffering and injustice in the world."
You do not need to agree with someone to act with consideration. You do not need to be attracted to someone to demonstrate a loving attitude.
2. Adjust the angle of your perspective. “It ain’t about you." Love motivates people to sacrifice for others, not expecting any personal benefit. Stop thinking selfishly. Look for the needs of others, and then do your part to meet their needs.
3. Locate the source of love. You may love something because it is a source of pleasure. You may feel devotion to someone because you enjoy his or her company. Sympathy and compassion are foundations of love toward those living in difficult circumstances. Empathy is a starting place for love, as you identify the value of other citizens of this planet. Love may start as an expression of personal gratitude for the blessings you have received and your desire to share those blessings. Faith and spiritual devotion are powerful sources of selfless love.
4. Express your love. Find words and actions of love that are appropriate. Learn to speak words of blessing rather than criticism. Share your resources with a needy person. Participate in your community of faith. Offer gifts and perform thoughtful deeds with no ulterior motivation.
5. Accept disappointment. Not everyone will return your love. This is not failure. It is not your goal to make the world love you, but for you to love the world.
Tuesday, January 6, 2009
Kissmat - 3Love & Sex
Humans beings are not solitary creatures, and something that unites all of us is our adventures in the world of relationships, love and sex. VideoJug can help. From doing the right things on a first date to building a healthy relationship and sex life, and from dealing with infidelity to surviving the strains of divorce, allow our experts to offer a guiding hand.
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Sex simply cannot be good unless it has a perfect combination of foreplay, stimulation and final intercourse. This entire factor should be completely synchronized in order to have better sex. Better sex is all about erotic enjoyment which arouses your partner into multiple orgasms. Read on to find out how you can have better sex too and achieve mind blowing results in bed.Everybody dreams about having and giving the best sex sessions ever. Sex can be a major problem for many people, and not because they aren't getting any, but because they don't perform very well. Sexual satisfaction and better sex are emotions that your partner feels after sexual intercourse. They have nothing to do with your sexual positions. Sex is one of the great gifts to you and everyone and should be enjoyed.
What part does sex or love play in happiness?
Well, in the beginning of a romantic relationship, when you're in that infatuation stage, you feel very happy. We've all felt that. Everybody writes songs about it and movies about it and that "in love" feeling is one of the ways that we know to define happiness. It's interesting, if you allow then the relationship to actually begin, which it doesn't really do until after you fall "out of love" with the person you fell in love with, and you go through a secondary stage. We call the first stage "forming" and the secondary stage "storming", then "norming", and the "performing". So "forming" is the "in love' infatuation stage. When you get to "storming" you're looking across at that person and you're saying "Oh, my Gosh, what was I thinking. They're not perfect, now I'm not perfect, it's not perfect, maybe this was a bad idea." But when you get through that and you allow yourself to choose to love the person anyway in the "norming" stage and you work out the differences which of course there will be and you identify how you can work together as a partnership, which then gets you to 'performing", you can generate happiness within that relationship, which again, will last for a lifetime instead of just during the romantic phase, and then once that element's over then the relationship is done. Which unfortunately is where most movies stop too, so I don't know that we have great role models about how to that, unfortunately.
ALL THE BOYS (LOVE MY BABY)
ALL THE BOYS (LOVE MY BABY)
(Steve Bloomfield)
MATCHBOX (ROCKHOUSE LP7612, 1976)
All the boys love my baby
Don't leave room for me
They're gonna drive me crazy
Wish they'd let my baby be
Every place that we go now
The cats are on her tail
I'm going out of my head now
Makes my heart moan and wail
All the boys love my baby
Everyone loves my gal
All the boys love my baby
Yeah, everybody loves that gal
Driving to a late night movie
All heads start to turn
Swing right down in the back seat
Oh I wish those creeps would burn
If I only had a plain Jane
Instead of a beauty queen
If this goes on much longer
I will surely go insane
All the boys love my baby
Everyone loves my gal
All the boys love my baby
Yeah, everybody loves that gal
Oh I really like to quit her
I really really like to go
It's easier said than done boy
When you love somebody so
Things may change tomorrow
But I said it yesterday
Everything's still the same now
Oh what more can I say
All the boys love my baby
Everyone loves my gal
All the boys love my baby
Yeah, everybody loves that gal
All the boys love my baby
Everyone loves my gal
All the boys love my baby
Yeah, everybody loves that gal
All the boys love my baby
All the boys love my baby
All the boys love my baby
Yeah, everybody loves that gal
Monday, January 5, 2009
Love is only just a dream
Love is only just a dream
Life’s not a dream
When emptiness has spilled the scene
When you walked away from me
And told me love is only just a dream
I have tried to say goodbye
But words have gotten in the way
Couldn’t hold my feelings
I just broke down and cry
Breaking up is a not a game
Oh my baby can’t you see in me
I still love you baby
I just can’t let you go
Couldn’t live without you baby
I’ll rather run my life this way
When you turn and walk away
I knew that love is only just a dream
Love is not science, but these he's-into-you signs feel like fact.
Love is not science, but these he's-into-you signs feel like fact.Is he into you? Does he love you? Your friends will analyze it to death, and who knows if they're right. The same can be said for the people who study love professionally, like Dr. Phil for Match.com or Dr. Helen Fischer for Match's new site, Chemistry.com.
But we press on, because men are confusing buggers, and there are actually tell-tale patterns when a man is sweet on you. If he's into you, he can't help but exhibit certain behaviors, and they go a little something like this:
He suddenly has perfect manners.
He might have been incredibly polite before he knew you, but now that he has a lady to impress, dude is opening doors, taking your arm in his arm, offering thanks yous and apologies for the littlest of things. How cute is that?
He calls wh
enever, wherever.No one is immune to the dreaded waiting period when the call is supposed to come and doesn't. When a guy is into you, he'll call to say "hi". He'll text a "smooch!" just because. He'll be in touch with you. When you're with someone who digs you, there is no waiting for that cell phone to make some noise.
He does adorable but awkward things.
This one came from our guy friends, who said that when they're into a woman, they're trying really hard not to screw things up, so they basically screw a lot of things up! They stumble, they say the wrong thing, they dork out. It's adorable!
He is strangely patient about "girlie" stuff.
Brush your hair because you think it feels good? Sure, babe. Watch Mamma Mia! because it makes you happy? Fine with him. He's into you, which means he wants to be with you, which means suffering a chick-flick or afternoon shopping. Dude is into you, mama!
Never Ride Faster
Pay no mind to those who talk behind your back, it simply means that you are two steps ahead
Never Ride Faster Than Your Angle Can Fly
Friday, January 2, 2009
If You Love Me
If you love me
let me fall
dont raise my hopes
so high and tall
and when you notice
I'm not all that great
you would have sealed
my predicted fate
If you love me
let me down
so i dont expect
to swim not drown
sooner or later
I'll hit the ground
just to again
be found
by someone like you
who'll make me belive
as if happiness is
something we can achive
so if you dont plan
to catch mytears
help me to
face my fears
just let me fall
in to the sea
if you dont
plan to catch me
Love Poems
Love Poems
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What is a love poem? Is it necessarily a poem about romantic love? About romance? Marriage and commitment? Or is a love poem something else entirely?
In a recent short story I wrote, a writer is told by a young critic that he doesn't understand love. "It's neither noble nor eternal, as you would have your audience believe," she says.
"Nobody understands love," the writer admits. "It seems to be Universal. Timeless. Yet, it's also very individual, filtered by our own lives and expectations. I don't understand love, and can't understand love, because it's a different thing for each of us."
These love poems are Universal. Timeless. And yet very much a different thing for each of us. We hope you enjoy them...
poetry home
What is a love poem? Is it necessarily a poem about romantic love? About romance? Marriage and commitment? Or is a love poem something else entirely?
In a recent short story I wrote, a writer is told by a young critic that he doesn't understand love. "It's neither noble nor eternal, as you would have your audience believe," she says.
"Nobody understands love," the writer admits. "It seems to be Universal. Timeless. Yet, it's also very individual, filtered by our own lives and expectations. I don't understand love, and can't understand love, because it's a different thing for each of us."
These love poems are Universal. Timeless. And yet very much a different thing for each of us. We hope you enjoy them...
Love Me
Love Me
Love me in the Springtime, when all is green and new,
Love me in the Summer, when the sky is oh so blue,
Love me in the Autumn, when the leaves are turning brown,
Love me in the Winter, when the snow is falling down.
Love me when I'm happy, and even when I'm sad,
Love me when I'm good, or when I'm oh so bad,
Love me when I'm pretty, or if my face is plain,
Love me when I'm feeling good, or when I'm feeling pain.
Love me always darlin', in the rain or shining sun,
Love me always darlin', after all is said and done,
Love me always darlin', until all our life is through,
Love me always darlin', for I'll be lovin' you!
Love me in the Springtime, when all is green and new,
Love me in the Summer, when the sky is oh so blue,
Love me in the Autumn, when the leaves are turning brown,
Love me in the Winter, when the snow is falling down.
Love me when I'm happy, and even when I'm sad,
Love me when I'm good, or when I'm oh so bad,
Love me when I'm pretty, or if my face is plain,
Love me when I'm feeling good, or when I'm feeling pain.
Love me always darlin', in the rain or shining sun,
Love me always darlin', after all is said and done,
Love me always darlin', until all our life is through,
Love me always darlin', for I'll be lovin' you!
Thursday, January 1, 2009
Love Me Or Hate Me
Love Me Or Hate Me lyrics
Yeah,
It's officially the biggest midget in the game.
I dunno.
Make way for the S.O.V.
[Chorus (x2):]
Love me or hate me, it's still an obsession.
Love me or hate me, that is the question.
If you love me then thank you!
If you hate me then fuck you!
I'm fat, I need a diet.
No, in fact I'm just too light
And I ain't got the biggest breast-s-s, but I write all the best disses.
I got hairy armpits, but I don't walk around like this.
I wear a big baggy t-shirt that hides that nasty shit.
Ugh!
Never had my nails done.
Bite them down until they're numb.
I'm the one with the non-existent bum,
Now I don't really give a....Ugh!
I'm missing my shepherd's pie
Like a high maintenance chick missin' her diamonds.
I'm missin' my clippers lighters.
Now bow down to your royal highness.
No I don't own a corgi,
Had a hamster, it died cause I ignored it.
Go on then, go on report me,
I'm English, try and deport me!
[Chorus (x2):]
Love me or hate me, it's still an obsession.
Love me or hate me, that is the question.
If you love me then thank you!
If you hate me then fuck you!
I'm that funky little monkey with the tiniest ears.
I don't like drinking fancy champy,
I'll stick wit Heineken beers.
Whoops, might burp in ya face,
A little unlady-like,
What can I say?
Well oh gosh I'm not posh, male with odd socks.
I do what I'm doing, yeah!
So everybody's entitled to opinions,
I open my mouth and shit I got millions.
I'm the middle kid, the riddle kid,
I'll make you giggle till your sick
Cause my nose jiggles while I spit.
Yeah I do have some stories
And its true I want all the glory.
Go on then, come on support me,
I'm English, try and deport me!
[Chorus (x2):]
Love me or hate me, it's still an obsession.
Love me or hate me, that is the question.
If you love me then thank you!
If you hate me then fuck you!
Love me or hate me
Love me or hate me
So I can't dance and I really can't sing.
I can only do one thing,
And that's be Lady Sovereign!
So I can't dance and I really can't sing.
I can only do one thing,
And that's be Lady Sovereign!
[Chorus (x4):]
Love me or hate me, it's still an obsession.
Love me or hate me, that is the question.
If you love me then thank you!
If you hate me then fuck you!
[x2:]
Love me or hate me
Love me or hate me
Love me or hate me
I can only do one thing,
And that's be Lady Sovereign!
Love Me
"Love Me Do" is an early Lennon/McCartney song, principally written by Paul McCartney in 1958–59 while playing truant from school.[1] John Lennon wrote the middle eight.[2][3][4] The song was The Beatles' first single, backed by "P.S. I Love You" and released on 5 October 1962. When the single was originally released in the UK, it peaked at number seventeen; in 1982 it was re-issued and reached number four. In the U.S. the single was a number one hit in 1964.
"Love Me Do" begins with bluesy harmonica played by John Lennon, then features Lennon and McCartney on joint lead vocals. McCartney sings the solo vocal line on the song's title phrase (and also its middle eight). Lennon had previously sung the title sections, but this change in arrangement was made in the studio under the direction of producer George Martin when the harmonica part was introduced, as Lennon then needed to resume playing it on the same beat as the "do" of "love me do".[5] This is illustrative of the live characteristics of this particular session - as when a similar situation occurred on another session with “Please Please Me”, the harmonica was superimposed afterwards using tape-to-tape overdubbing.
"Love Me Do" begins with bluesy harmonica played by John Lennon, then features Lennon and McCartney on joint lead vocals. McCartney sings the solo vocal line on the song's title phrase (and also its middle eight). Lennon had previously sung the title sections, but this change in arrangement was made in the studio under the direction of producer George Martin when the harmonica part was introduced, as Lennon then needed to resume playing it on the same beat as the "do" of "love me do".[5] This is illustrative of the live characteristics of this particular session - as when a similar situation occurred on another session with “Please Please Me”, the harmonica was superimposed afterwards using tape-to-tape overdubbing.
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